Pyaar toh Honaa hi tha... One of my fav movies. (Though a Remake of French Kiss..but aestheticaly made, not a senseless copy) And one of my fav scenes out of d movie is when kajol finds out her fiance is with another woman and she gets depressed, ajay devgan tries to cheer her up and the dialogues tht follow are:
A: bas haar gayi?
K: tumne kabhi sapne dekhe hein shekhar? Maine dekhe hein aur un hein tut te hue bhi Dekha hai... Bahut taklif hoti hai, isiliye maine socha hai ab se koi sapna hi nahi dekhungi...
I remember d dialogues verbatim. It makes me wonder though, how displaced r we from reality? for a generation brought up on unhealthy dose of srk- yash chopra- Karan johar romances, not to mention the supply of mills and boon, romances have become surreal. So have maybe our expectations but on second thoughts, is it tht wrong to dream and then to expect tht dream to be fulfilled? Is the fear of failure good enough reason to not even try? i hope not.
Everyone deserves a dream and everyone deserves a chance to fulfill that dream, not just one single chance but millions of them. And the heart to correct all d wrongs without giving up. Be it love, career, education, friends anything.
A person without a dream is like vampire, soulless. And not like the happening cullen coven, but the age old dirty, rugged soulless vampires.
Coming back to dreams, sometimes it sseems easier to give up than to hold on to a idea only u believe in. But i sincerely wish giving up should not even be an option. It may hurt like hell but beyond tht the hope remains. The hope tht beyon the heart break, the pain things will work out. It cant be all too bad, it has to have a silver lining somewhere.
Finally it's the belief tht if srk promisedus true love it has to there somewhere, maybe we are not looking hard enough, maybe we made the wrong choice, but at the end, it has to be the right one. Compromise is not an option in the land of dreams and reality has to be made of dreams we made true, instead of some cold practical facts made to give up ur wishes. It's not a landing to our wishful thinking, but a destination to that thinking. Reality can never be segregated from dreams.
So to all d ones holding in to ur dreams, just hold on! Don't let anyone tell u ur dreams aren't possible and don't let reality happen to u, but make ur dreams happen to reality.
And if it gets tough, well thts y vodka was invented ! On a serious note, if it gets tough, take a break, relax and get set again...So show a digit to any shithead who tells u reality is different from dreams and prove him wrong.
A: bas haar gayi?
K: tumne kabhi sapne dekhe hein shekhar? Maine dekhe hein aur un hein tut te hue bhi Dekha hai... Bahut taklif hoti hai, isiliye maine socha hai ab se koi sapna hi nahi dekhungi...
I remember d dialogues verbatim. It makes me wonder though, how displaced r we from reality? for a generation brought up on unhealthy dose of srk- yash chopra- Karan johar romances, not to mention the supply of mills and boon, romances have become surreal. So have maybe our expectations but on second thoughts, is it tht wrong to dream and then to expect tht dream to be fulfilled? Is the fear of failure good enough reason to not even try? i hope not.
Everyone deserves a dream and everyone deserves a chance to fulfill that dream, not just one single chance but millions of them. And the heart to correct all d wrongs without giving up. Be it love, career, education, friends anything.
A person without a dream is like vampire, soulless. And not like the happening cullen coven, but the age old dirty, rugged soulless vampires.
Coming back to dreams, sometimes it sseems easier to give up than to hold on to a idea only u believe in. But i sincerely wish giving up should not even be an option. It may hurt like hell but beyond tht the hope remains. The hope tht beyon the heart break, the pain things will work out. It cant be all too bad, it has to have a silver lining somewhere.
Finally it's the belief tht if srk promisedus true love it has to there somewhere, maybe we are not looking hard enough, maybe we made the wrong choice, but at the end, it has to be the right one. Compromise is not an option in the land of dreams and reality has to be made of dreams we made true, instead of some cold practical facts made to give up ur wishes. It's not a landing to our wishful thinking, but a destination to that thinking. Reality can never be segregated from dreams.
So to all d ones holding in to ur dreams, just hold on! Don't let anyone tell u ur dreams aren't possible and don't let reality happen to u, but make ur dreams happen to reality.
And if it gets tough, well thts y vodka was invented ! On a serious note, if it gets tough, take a break, relax and get set again...So show a digit to any shithead who tells u reality is different from dreams and prove him wrong.
